THE INTIMATE DAY
UP TO 30 GUESTS · ONE ESTATE · ENTIRELY YOURS
For the couple who wants everything beautiful — and only thirty people to share it with.
The Westtown Reset is the small wedding venue New York couples searching for something different always find themselves coming back to. A private 23-acre estate in Westtown, NY, 75 minutes from Midtown Manhattan — designed for micro weddings and smaller celebrations. One of the most unique event spaces in the Hudson Valley: a full private estate exclusively yours from the moment you arrive. No other guests. No other events. Just your people and a property that looks extraordinary from every angle.
This is a wedding day designed around connection — not a production around a room count. If you’re planning a micro wedding, curate your guest list down to your closest friends and family. Up to 30 guests. One estate. Entirely yours.
The Hudson Valley’s most intimate small wedding venue in New York
Most couples searching for affordable wedding venues near NYC eventually hit the same wall: restaurant buyouts with 10 PM curfews, hotel ballrooms split with three other Saturday events, and Manhattan rooftops with per-head bar minimums that quietly double the budget. Space in New York is scarce — which is why city venues cost what they cost, not because they’re exceptional.
This gorgeous small wedding venue in located in upstate New York — a private 23-acre estate in Westtown, NY, set in the Hudson Valley, 75 minutes from Midtown Manhattan. Ceremony lawn with Catskill Mountain views. A restored red timber-frame barn for the reception dinner. A professional chef’s kitchen, heated outdoor pool, barrel sauna, and fire pit circle. Overnight accommodation for your wedding party included. The estate is entirely yours from arrival to departure — no other guests, no other events.
When you add up what a small wedding venue in New York City actually costs — venue fee, separate catering minimum, hotel rooms for guests, transportation — a private estate buyout upstate often delivers far more for a comparable budget. And there’s simply no comparison on setting.
What Your Small Wedding Venue in New York Includes
The Estate
Full exclusive property buyout. No other guests on the grounds from your arrival to departure.
Ceremony Lawn
Open manicured lawn with the white farmhouse porch as your perfect backdrop, or face outward to sweeping panoramic views across the Hudson Valley. A natural beauty that photographs beautifully from every angle.
Pool Terrace
The wraparound porch, tiered stone patio, and heated pool surround make an unforgettable cocktail hour setting. An outdoor space designed for small gatherings — intimate atmosphere, natural beauty, and the whole valley as your view.
Barn Suite
The apartment above the red barn is reserved for the couple — your own private retreat to arrive, dress, and begin your wedding day in peace. One of the most unique spaces on the property.
The Chef’s Kitchen
Two full ovens, generous prep counters, professional layout. Outdoor dining for all 30 guests included. Your caterer has everything they need.
Fire Pit Circle
End the evening gathered around the fire under open Hudson Valley skies. The Adirondack circle is the perfect setting for smaller groups — an intimate celebration that closes your special day exactly right.
Parking
14 vehicles on-site including 2 garage bays. Your guests arrive directly to the estate — no shuttles needed.
Overnight Option
The main house with 5 en-suite guest rooms is available as an add-on for your wedding party. Many couples also use the estate the evening before for rehearsal dinners — arriving Friday, celebrating Saturday, leaving Sunday at their own pace.
The chef’s kitchen at The Westtown Reset was designed for exactly this moment. Two full ovens, generous prep counters, and a layout your caterer will love — everything your team needs to deliver a flawless dinner for your most important thirty people.
“We used the barn apartment to get ready the morning of our wedding — just me, my mom, and my two bridesmaids. Champagne on the porch, hair and makeup with the whole estate laid out below us, knowing in a few hours we’d be walking down that ceremony lawn. I keep saying it was the most peaceful morning of my life. The Westtown Reset didn’t just host our wedding. It held the whole day.”
Sydney & James · June 2025 · Micro wedding, 24 guests
Your Small Wedding in New York, Your Vendors, Your Vision
The Intimate Day is a venue-only package — the right model for a small wedding in New York where the couple wants full creative control. You bring your caterer, florist, officiant, and photographer. We provide the stage: a Hudson Valley estate that looks extraordinary no matter what style you bring to it. No mandatory in-house vendors. No forced packages. No compromise on who tells your story.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many guests can The Intimate Day accommodate?
Up to 30 guests for the ceremony and celebration. This is an intentional micro-wedding package designed for intimate, meaningful gatherings.
Is catering included?
No — and that is intentional. You bring your own caterer, giving you full control over your menu. The chef’s kitchen with two full ovens is available to your catering team throughout the day. We have 3 different chefs at different price points we can recommend.
Can guests stay overnight?
Yes, as an add-on. The main house has 5 en-suite bedrooms for your wedding party. The barn apartment is included as the couple’s suite. You can also rent only the barn space and use the main house for catering and staff.
Are there other events happening the same day?
Never. Every booking is a full exclusive property buyout. You are the only event on the property. We offer 1, 2, or 3 day packages — Friday through Sunday.
How far is The Westtown Reset from New York City?
The estate is located in Westtown, NY — approximately 1 hour 15 minutes from Midtown Manhattan by car. Also reachable via the Metro-North Port Jervis Line from Grand Central, with car service from the station.
What seasons are available?
The estate is beautiful in every season. Spring brings cherry blossoms across the Hudson Valley, summer offers the pool and golden evenings, fall delivers spectacular upstate New York foliage, and winter ceremonies by the fire pit have their own quiet magic.
Is The Westtown Reset one of the best small wedding venues in upstate New York?
Yes. The Westtown Reset is a private 23-acre Hudson Valley estate, 75 minutes from Midtown Manhattan — one of the most exclusive small wedding venues in upstate New York. You get a ceremony lawn, red barn reception, chef’s kitchen, and overnight accommodation, all exclusively yours. No other events, no shared spaces, no strangers. Just your 30 people and a property that looks extraordinary from every angle.
Why do couples choose an upstate New York small wedding venue over a city venue?
City wedding venues in New York — especially for small weddings — often mean hard curfews, shared-space events on the same day, and a guest experience shaped by logistics rather than atmosphere. A small wedding venue in upstate New York solves all of that. The Westtown Reset is a private 23-acre Hudson Valley estate that books one wedding at a time: full exclusive buyout, no noise restrictions, no other events on the grounds, overnight accommodation included. Thirty guests in a setting like this feel like thirty very lucky people.
Is The Westtown Reset a small wedding venue in New York for 30 guests or fewer?
Yes — The Intimate Day is specifically designed as a small wedding venue in New York for up to 30 guests. This is an intentional design, not a restriction: with 30 people, the ceremony lawn feels full, the barn dinner feels alive, and every guest is someone who actually matters. A micro-wedding at the scale of a private Hudson Valley estate.
Getting to Your Small Wedding Venue in New York
By Car
75 minutes from Midtown Manhattan via I-87 or NJ-17 N. On-site parking for 14 vehicles including 2 garage bays — no shuttle logistics, no valet fees, no city traffic after the ceremony.
By Train
Metro-North Port Jervis Line from Grand Central Station to Middletown, NY — approximately 90 minutes, then car service to the estate. A genuine alternative to city venues for guests coming from Manhattan or Brooklyn.
What’s Nearby
Warwick Valley Winery (20 min), Storm King Art Center (30 min), Harriman State Park, and the village of Warwick, NY — perfect for a rehearsal dinner the night before your small wedding.
Inquire About Your Date
The Westtown Reset books a limited number of intimate weddings each season. Pricing is shared upon inquiry. We respond to every inquiry personally.